Hey everybody, welcome back to Married Mondays. This week I want to talk about how things used to be. You know back when you started dating or when you were still living in the honeymoon phase of your marriage.
In our marriages, when life gets in the way, we tend to look back at how things were. We talk about the “remember whens”, and the “we used to…”We talk about the times from our past, and then we become like Dora, “I liked that too.” This is where it stops, we talk about what used to be and don’t do anything to bring a spark back. We get caught up in the noise of our daily lives, and just stick to viewing our lives in reruns.
So my challenge to you this week now that Valentine’s is over, find some other way to show your spouse how much you care. Don’t rely on just a couple days of days each year to show them how you feel, make everyday a special day. Pick a random day to relive a day you often talk about. Make sure you block out the noise that is daily life. Focus on each other, focus on a remake not a rerun.