Every year, many of us do the same things: we make New Year’s resolutions. I’ll lose weight, I’ll go to the gym, I’ll have a dry January, I’ll do this, I’ll do that. By mid-February, you haven’t seen the gym in days or weeks, you haven’t lost any weight, and well, that first Friday back to work was a long week, and you just needed something to help you relax, or you were celebrating a birthday, a promotion, a proposal… We all end up breaking promises we make to ourselves at some point; some make it longer than others, but at some point, we lose focus.
For me, this year is about focus. I was looking back through some old notes from 2019, where I started the year strong, I was fixing my focus on the bible and on God. I made it to February 6th, then had a note on the 12th, but that was it. So many times, we have the best intentions, and then we will say something like, “Life happened.” Yes, life happens, but what we have to determine is what we are going to do and adjust as life happens. When you think you have things figured out and a plan, remember the old saying: “If you want to make God laugh, make a plan.”
Think back over how many times you had things figured out, then there is a death in the family, a car that breaks down, a water line that busts, a lay-off at work, someone gets sick, or something else that just messed up your plans. What happened? Did God take care of it? Was the result better than the one you were looking for? Sometimes, it is extremely hard to see what is ahead when we are directly in the storm, but if we have a solid foundation and a steady focus, we are more likely to hear and see what direction God wants us to go.

One of the things that has been constantly in my mind since probably last October comes to mind every time I’m walking my dog. Does God feel like I do walking my dog while walking with me? That might not make any sense at all, but let me expand on that a little bit. Our “mini” Goldendoodle seems to always walk like a bloodhound, nose to the ground, sniffing everywhere, stopping and cutting in different directions. I have no clue what he is smelling; it could be where another dog has walked, a rabbit was, who knows. - Stay with me.- He goes to do his business, and a car comes by, or another dog 4 streets over barks, or the wind moves in a different way, and nope, that spot isn’t good anymore. We have to go half a block up and then back to the same spot that is now good again. Other times, on our walks, he will just bark for no real reason or bark at another dog that is minding its own business. So, where am I going with this?
Are we spending our days walking with God but not staying on the path that He wants to take us on? Are we so distracted by the things around us that we forget what we are here to do? How often have you felt God gently pull you back onto the path or calmly tell you to come on and do what you need to? How often have you felt God drag you back to the path and correct you? How often do we find ourselves yelling for no reason, picking fights we won’t win, yelling because someone else somewhere did it too?
If you are constantly distracted, take some time to slow down and fix your focus. The longer you are pulling away and doing your own thing, the more of the good things God has you will miss. At the end of the day, when God wants you to do something, you won’t have a choice.
18 Zechariah asked the angel, “How can I be sure of this? I am an old man and my wife is well along in years.”
19 The angel said to him, “I am Gabriel. I stand in the presence of God, and I have been sent to speak to you and to tell you this good news. 20 And now you will be silent and not able to speak until the day this happens, because you did not believe my words, which will come true at their appointed time.”
Luke 1:18-20
Take time, as you start this year, to adjust your focus and your ears, eyes, and heart to what God has next for you. It might not make sense at first, but the more you lean into it, the more you seek him for clarity on it, the more you seek guidance from others, the more in focus your life will be.
